Husband paralysed peasant woman bitter to prop up poor house concentrate one's attention on and look after Achieved the miracle in 17

Husband paralysed peasant woman bitter to prop up poor house concentrate one's attention on and look after Achieved the miracle in 17
Before the 17 year, Dingxi the intersection of city and the intersection of Tongwei and the intersection of county and the intersection of Lidian and the intersection of township and the the intersection of river and young the intersection of Zhou Yong and brightness and this county third shop Lu RunXia of township of village set up a happy nuclear family. Though the family is penniless, two people treat each other with respect, it is really envied that the ones that let in the village are small and young. But change once so, cause the high position of Zhou Yong's brightness chest to be paralysed. In following a 17 year, Lu RunXia very different to imagine agony and pressure, concentrate one's attention on, look after husband that high position is paralyse, to husband from abandon, spread as good in locality.
The disaster comes in the poor family
In winter of 1993, Zhou YongHui married Lu RunXia two people. Though family is penniless, two people treats each other with respect, add affectionately, it is the nuclear family letting people envy in the village. The poverty state of the family makes Zhou YongHui urgent in the heart, for the happiness of the family, he rolls up the bedding to go to Jiuquan to work as a temporary labourer . However, it has an unforeseen storm, but a disaster just comes to this family. The contingency happens while working in the building site to Zhou YongHui, cause the chest high position to be paralysed, the doctor says Zhou YongHui's life can last three years at most
Though the life has kept, has lost consciousness under the chest. YongHui Zhou get back to the the intersection of river and village under to escort fellow worker. And when the this, Zhou born for 4 months by YongHui and child of RunXia Lu.
Careful to care for and create the miracle
The patient that looks after and is paralysed in the bed is a very difficult thing, Lu RunXia looks after the husband who focuses on the disease like treatment child. In order to prevent the husband from catching bedsore, in early morning of every day, she embraces the husband outside the room from bed to shine the sun, breathe the fresh air; Sleep and afraid of weighing muscles wounded in the evening, help the husband to turn over body two times, connect one and relieve oneself small twice, scrub the body before sleeping . The husband can't take care of oneself in defecation and urination, separate for one or two days each time, she will draw stool once for the husband. Will massage for the husband's both legs every day, otherwise time is long, the husband's both legs know the adhesion, sometimes it is too tired to work in the daytime, she lay prone and fell asleep on the warmer end of a kang while rubing.
In order to guarantee the husband's nutrition, Lu moistened rosy clouds to raise several hens, raise a pig every year, guarantee the husband eats an egg every morning . Having finished after a meal each time, Lu RunXia should bring in a bowl of cool boiled water to gargle for the husband. Old docter of TCM in the village say Lu moisten rosy clouds, create a miracle, accidentally, the doctor says Zhou YongHui's life can spend two years to extend the doctor's order in three years at most. Often make Zhou YongHui move so that one's eyes brimmed with tears at the time of these slight treatment that show consideration for, sentimental in the tear, it is mostly happy. And the family, moisten rosy clouds, women that can't be more ordinary under one countryside by Lu nearly, it is kindhearted and so strong as to support to use .
The weak woman provokes the heavy burden of home
Zhou YongHui is paralysed in that year, Lu RunXia was only 24 years old, the whole family's life heavy burdens landed on Lu RunXia's shoulder, bring up the son, look after the husband of the high-order paraplegia, has served and is almost the 80 -year-old mother-in-law and become all of her life contents.
Too bitter those years, Lu RunXia said that will never be forgotten. Cultivated land farm, weed, gather in, type, grind, install storehouse is busy outside on being busy, family sidelight, big and small job both pass her hands. There are 9 mu of land in her family, it is the grain ration that the whole family survives, it is one of the economic source too. 9 land these to consume Lu, moisten the intersection of rosy clouds and the intersection of youth and largest place too. Lu RunXia says, planted the potato in 3 points of ground to gain happily and have a bumper harvest one year, very glad in one's own heart, here one day then, she dig, give 3 potato of ground a piggyback, come back home all without a break, have altogether 9 big plastic bags . In a normal peasant household's family, the farm work wants two people to do for two days and finish. After going home, Lu RunXia is bearing tired, just have a rest after attending the good husband as at ordinary times. It was so painful as to move that she overworked all over the next day.
Have not seen last one side of mother
Lu RunXia says the biggest difficulty is that husband's life cannot take care of oneself, this makes her unable to move even a single step, otherwise went out to work as a casual labourer and subsidized some family expenses by oneself. For look after husband, Lu moisten rosy clouds, meet, pay by even last one side when mother pass away. Talking about this, this kindhearted woman is in sobs, Zhou YongHui on the kang buries the whole face inside the pillow deeply. Lu RunXia's mother passed away last year, she did not go to burn a piece of paper on mother's tomb either till now, have added a handful of soil. This is that Lu moistens rosy clouds, a simple and honest rural woman, a filial wife, a virtuous wife, a kindhearted mother.
Over the past 17 years, on her weak shoulder, it is one of the old,weak,sick and disabled's four member families that the ones that bears the weight of are far more than, it is a frustration of trials and hardship year in year out that far more than, but is fine tradition and ethical passing on for 5,000 years of Chinese nation. One year and 360 days, she gets up early greedily and darkly everyday, comes in the wind, goes in the rain. Such a thing, she never disconnected and over over the past 17 years, but she has had no complaint, accepting with the optimistic psychology on inconceivable every day and night. (Niu XiaoYa )
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