The husband has no right to sleep first forever

The husband has no right to sleep first forever
Couple life, like a melody played together, only both sides devote all heart and soul to, in concert and harmony, can play out the wonderful and beautiful music. Undoubtedly, playing and flirting even if before sexual intercourse of prelude of this melody, the previous play often called also, it includes expressing the continuous lover's prattle of the love, caressing touching, embracing, kissing etc.. Have played with and can increase the disposition interestingly ago, has evoked the orgasm, help to fully arouse the wife's sexual desire, the reaching is harmonious. So, it is essential. However, a lot of people's importance of the play before not paying attention to or not knowing how that it's a pity. Shanghai sex sociology research center investigated 8000 married couple to cities and towns and countryside, 34.1% rural couple and 17.2% of the urban couple admit, prepare for less than 1 minute before their sex, or does not have at all; Find that 44.7% urban wife and 37% of the rural wives feel agony in the sexual behavior at the same time. In addition, the China society shows to the investigation which seven provinces and cities 2666 people such as Beijing,etc. carry on: Only 23.4% that can be caressed, touched before sexual intercourse, the ones that kissed had 17.6%, the ones that are embraced had 13.7%, the accounting for 45.3% of the play before not having. Obviously, have half woman person who reach excited nearly, therefore sexual life quality unsatisfactory naturally. During engaged ining psychological consultation of hospital, a young young married woman once told her the discontent to husband to me like this: "There is no ambience, the play made me itching to wrap the clothing and leave the bed before lacking. I hate him for his these kind of behavior, kiss two at your mouth, under the circumstances that the body fumbles several, then insert by force. " Another man who just marched toward thirty years of age, its sexual desire was on the occasion of vigorous period, cold person who appear unexpectedly, wife of he. Later on he can't help questioning the reason, the wife complains: "You only want to do it once going to bed, have finished if I have not been evoked yet from the start. Do you say I can be interested? " After the wife tells this critical a word to the husband, he suddenly sees the light: And the consequence led to in room of walking crudely and rashly that oneself is long-term hasty that it's proved. Since after this, he begins to induce caress to the wife abundantly before paying attention to each thing, the miracle has taken place soon, the wife's sex made no public appearances coldly from then on. In view of this, the harmonious sexual love is a piece of knowledge, it is a kind of art too, in order to obtain the high-quality sexual life, this lesson of the play before must also fill as the husband. However, only perform well the play is not still enough to make the wife get abundant satisfication far. An intimate girl friend blames her husband like this: "Him justs think of oneself, leave others alone if I am the most angry to the husband. Unless when you are stimulated by him, unless it over suddenly but he, then to touch the pillow is large to sleep, it have I treated coldly, sleep in loneliness difficulty. Sometimes, as soon as I can't help, I tell the truth: ' unless you have sufficient time and patience, don't come until I affectionate. ' " To be frank, walk room happy to fire the imagination really, if you want to up to " two happy feeling, get along swimmingly with each other " Realm easy thing. The previous play no doubt important, but getting beautiful the intersection of thing and play leave too, have easier a lot of couple (especially husband) this points Ignore. Reflect four cycle theories according to modernity, perfect couple life, should include excited issue, sustain issue, the intersection of orgasm and issue and disappear issue, these closely related in four period of stage and none of can be dispensed with. Among them, the excitement one is mainly a play before going on, it is " prelude " of preparing for sexual intercourse ; Sustain one and orgasm one, already enter sexual intercourse stage; Disappear issue play go on, mainly, make entirely making love course to carry things to the end, make people aftertaste. So-called after play with being couple after not handing in,continue both sides gentle lover's prattle and movements cordial, namely the one that reach after the orgasm " Lingering interest " . Play with the coda similar to the melody after so like the overture or prelude in play before already referring to above, none of can be dispensed with organic connection of the two. The reason why Adam, Eve bathed in love choose this way of sexual intercourse, its main purpose is for realizing sexual joyful, but might not pursue the orgasm simply. In fact, is to realize sexual joyful and determine whether couple life is the happy an important link to and then play with, especially especially important to the wife. Come, say man excited soon person who produce have, reach orgasm fast from sex physiology, the speed that sex excitement disappears is fast too. So, after they reach the orgasm and ejaculate, often feel very tired, only want to sleep; And the wife's sex reacts much more slowly than that of the husband, even already reached the orgasm, are not finishing and disappearing in a flash afterwards as the man either, excited while disappearing slowly in the sex, she still needs the husband's continuation to caress, for example say some " honeyed words " to her Or do some movements attentive in caress and could get the relief. At this moment, if husband can say some touching lover's prattle or stroke the wife so as to both hands softly with wife, embracing her silently, can make her feel satisfied, intoxicated in the happiness of the sexual love deeply. Meanwhile, she will not transmit this kind of happiness sense and sense of achievement to the husband stingily at all either. However, in life, a lot of husbands are after finishing the love, it is not for physiological reason, the multidirection wife express own grateful and love and then, they often stand up and sleep big with one's heart at peace, throw down the wife still needing to caress after satisfied, make her feel immediately and lose, even the heart grows animosity. So, the husband if this kind of sex psychology not understanding the wife requires, certainly will make this melody that couple's association plays get to the high tide on Ga but stops, scarce and long and far-reaching, the coda of making people enjoy endless aftertastes. If things go on like this, the wife will think the husband love oneself wholeheartedly, or think the husband very selfish; It is satisfied she can not not only get physiologically, but also very awkward psychologically, the will even cause ing is cold, thus make the wonderful concerto become the sad and dreary solo. De Balzac says right: "The husband has no right to sleep first forever "Here, I will tell the husbands a happy plaster silently: The play, could enable the couple life to carry things to the end after only treating as play before paying attention to, thus obtained the satisfactory result.

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