Sleep on " lion " Wake up suddenly

Sleep on " lion " Wake up suddenly
Some women hope to reflect the value of one's own life by the husband's success, because rely on the psychology to make them feel self-humiliation, like displaying one's own weakness, in order to get society and male protection. Woman's more outstanding characteristic is: Affectionate, ready to help others, passive and relying on It is very easy for the woman to produce the sympathetic response with others on the emotion and observe and learn others' feeling by experience seeing things as one would if he were in someone else's place, so those have enough women of ego consciousness, can earth subsidence enter snares of love and extricate oneself consciously often. They especially respect and care about others in emotion and materialist need, in this case, they become a kind of habit to the man's devotion, seldom put forward one's own requirement and hope boldly; They lack ego consciousness and independent personality, since realizing than man that is not so good as men in one's own physical power they even more, often treat the things with the passive psychology, get used to avoiding and waiting, seek backer and umbrella, so as to remedy their limitation, theirs is incomplete, even their mistake. But no matter the east or the west, relevant " era is different, men and women are all the same " Awakening enter contemporary hearts of women already, be begun to care one's own potentiality of the today one women, care " am I worse than man? " Seem to be innate intrepid opposite as to that --Men, women with the inferiority complex all have a common feeling: They can bestir oneself by oneself at any time, can make the thing that oneself wants to do at any time. The man will come to say at this moment very usually, but very important for women. Because women often incline to be passive and weak, always hope and need men to do things for the woman. Have no need for reticence, one of women have fantasies of, hope, find one ideal man together. This man should have the ability to arouse their enthusiasm, should have the ability to help them to make the thing that oneself can not do, should have the ability to meet them in spirit and materialist desire, should have the ability to help them to establish one's own existence in the society and realize one's own value. However, women of the independence will accept the rational advice, change one's own expectation. That is to say, they prove the meaning in which oneself exist and do the thing that oneself wants to do with one's own action. The factor influencing women to take action is numerous, they seem to be the target of the love innately, men always expect them to do no important things, seem to only expect them to provide the love for world, offer the emotion. They have ignored women's work and contribution. The traditional man activity is often independent, concrete, there are obvious products. But the traditional women activity is repeated, indeterminate, there are no obvious last products. Today, we should appraise women's activity with a kind of new standard, and so as to prove what women do is as important as what men do. On personality, woman and man are equal. Now, increasingly many women are making great efforts to be engaged in belonging to the male activity traditionally in those, those activities with obvious products. This kind of work with obvious products is encouraging them, has formed the sincere cooperation relation with the colleague in this kind of job, have formed one's own independent personality in the social connection that oneself created. They have produced and obtained the new hope succeeding, and seen one's own value from succeeding in, see one's own ability, this makes them proud, have strong fulfillments. Certainly, such new enthusiasm also should be risk-taking, because they will bear responsibility. "I know I am bearing responsibility for others' existence: To parents, to the husband, to children, to the friend, to the cooperative partner. Is there any than responsibility with heavier this? " A woman general manager of group company says. With the development of times, increasingly many women begin to keep one's own a inertia according to one's own criterion. When others object to their opinion, they need to insist on through one's own strength, this is a kind of risk, but worthy.

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