The husband does not " lift " How does the wife face

The husband does not " lift " How does the wife face
It is not only the man's trouble not to lift, will become the enormous burden of its spouse even more. Recently, U.S.A. " doctor of medicine of network " Interview many experts to point out, male erection function obstacle (ED) Will influence the wife's self-confidence seriously, even let them produce and feel apologetic the sense.
Expert point out nearly all man, always may take place ED by soming in all one's life, reason its there are a lot of, pressure for instance, depressed, diabetes, hyperlipemia, heart disease and treat above-mentioned method of disease, also may cause men not to lift. Tie tight pointing out in storehouse of wheat of medical centre health and Andrew, sterile director of man, of New York University: " While finding husband's sexual question, a lot of wives will blame oneself ' do something wrong at first, or am I no longer attractive to him? ' mood that they still present anxiety, are injured easily,etc.. This is mainly because women lack of understanding to male ED. " The intersection of university and the intersection of graduate school and Professor, state of Michigan, " very important to woman sex " the intersection of author and the intersection of Sally and welfare of book say too " have: " I find in the investigation, a lot of women will also ask some and reflect the problem of their negative mood, such as imply the companion has extramarital relations,etc.. Apt in man question understand these until ' find fault ', then become cold. This will cause the wife ' read by mistake ', regard being cold as the identification that oneself has done the wrong thing, also become cold and more detached. This form one vicious circle, greatly injury in marriage. "
The expert points out, the wife pretends not to find, have no help at all to the husband's ED at the same time, but it is not a method to undertake to do what is apparently beyond one's ability. " Some wives will make some changes the going on is provoked, thought that could arouse the husband's sexual desire after the husband ED. Hardly realize this may make the situation worse. " Sally's welfare is reminded, " if you suddenly appear in front of the husband in the sexy underwear, may bring larger presure to him. I propose, after the husband ED, the wife should not try the sexual love sedulously. "
To wife, once find the husband's sex ability is changed to some extent, the most important thing is it is clear " this is not one's own question " ,Then should exchange frankly and sincerely among couple. " You had better not talk about the thing in bedroom, either don't talk about soon behind taking place ED. Should try hard to choose a few days or several weeks after the thing take place, communicate with him in a calm way, don't complain ED of him, either can't seem, mind, otherwise he will think you care nothing for couple life. " Professors of Columbia University Jenny and Buddha and Donny say. While communicating, the wife should let the husband know, had enjoying the sexual love between two people very much all the time in the past by oneself first; Can imply him at the same time, perhaps the origin of ED is the health problem, in order to look after his self-respect; Finally, can propose liking to bear with him, if need, can accompany him to see a doctor together.
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