Love story _ of three 30 women married is single

Love story _ of three 30 women married is single

The man is talking about the first definition when being single of woman " Can't marry " ,Then the theme is mentioned thoroughly so-and-so particular women are: " such a woman can not afford to enjoy " Or " who dares to want " . Can't " marry " " who dares to want " sum Unspoken words in a play only two
Click: First, this woman's feeling is perverse, the difficult woman; Second, this woman " The condition " Very good, the man does not dare to be married.
Story one: Three great discoveries of suffering defeat in love
Depend on the cloud
On weekend, a same sex friend of mine calls, say crying: "Accompany me to drink. "
After the 20 minute, I sit, get opposite to the she already. See her tear stains on the face has not been dry, I smile through the desk: "What for? There is unoccupied wine, also receive master's small rude slave girl like the old society. "
She still says choking with sobs: "I am more than 30 today, a person celebrates birthday at the bar. Reviewed and passed the youth finished silently, suddenly there were three great discoveries: First, the woman can entice men too originally, needn't be always waiting to be enticed. "
I smile so as to nearly gush out the wine. She stares at me and continues saying at one glance: "All say, the woman should be passive in the love on the books. Under the guidance of wrong route here, I take the initiative never in love, always ' TaiGong Jiang fish, posture that the persons who wish rise to the bait '. Can arrive at puberty to wait from 15 years old, there are not several fish to rise to the bait. This just thinks, no, the iron wire is straight, hang down above the surface of water, also there is no bait, how could that fish jump out on the surface of water high? Even if can,how could this without any offensive smell iron wire in piece? Unless it is crazy! Unless it wants to commit suicide! Unless it is not the fish! You think in playing with ancient times, the beautiful woman saw the gifted scholar, or look later, a wave is circulated and given a winsome smile; Or when the path passed by the gifted scholar in the garden, suddenly lost the silk handkerchief in the hand, that gifted scholar should bend over to choose for her naturally, she casts a look at him to takes over the handkerchief, cover mouth, smile, then fly swiftly but go, stay seized with terror to make lovesickness in where it is gifted scholar that. Where is this beautiful woman passive? It is a past master who entices the man clearly! I am inferior to even ancient! "
I nod smiling, ask again: "Where is this second great discovery? " She admires it to say: "The man loved a woman for being that the appearance which loved her was not the soul which loved her originally! "
"God! Shamelessly innocent! I have asked too that love my man: ' are you beauty which love me? ' they all answer: ', love your virtue and talent by I. ' I have hated that moral professor that come to our university to give a report very much, he emphasizes repeatedly the physical beauty is not important, makes my university absorb in pursuing the inner beauty in four years, have never looked in the mirror; Have passed and finished the youth to just find muddleheadedly: The man loves a woman for being mostly the appearance which love her! How could he love the woman's soul? He can not see her soul again! I this piece it makes womans to be so lustful, how expect the intersection of man and kind Germany? "
I turn over eyes, shoulder and depend on to the chair: "It is the more difficult for the simpler truth to understand! Is the third found? "
She then says: "It is clear to live in 30, the love is not eternity. The love is the fire, lighted two people at the same time, the person is not the oil depot, it is almost drained to burn six for half a year too in month, how could burn forever? "
"Say right, cheers. " Two pieces of wine bottle is touched, smile at each other knowingly each other. Song is melodious, it is exactly Liang Zhu's violin. The friend says hating: "Some day, let me legislate, will eliminate these love lies deceiving people first! And then stipulate national people none gets married! "
Story two: 30, once such as Xia HuaXin such as water
Fine snow
Leaf float, fall as autumns, I understand oneself step into 30 year old life high point soon too. I am no longer young and crude and impetuous, no longer tender and muddleheaded too, been already standing single loneliness, also flee from the agony that betrays.
When just got 25 years old ago, not yet I of the love had not worried about and discussed the wedding theory was married. Though, often someone comes to act as matchmaker to talk about a marriage, or the opposite sex implies good opinion, I am disapproving, always want to look for a person that loves very much oneself to accompany all one's life.
26 years old, meet the man that oneself fell in love at first sight, the other side is handsome, handsome, young talents. Has known him, what do I know to let to " imprint on the bones and inscribe on the memory " ! Anything let " as long as the heaven and earth endure sometimes to the limit, this hate continuous to have one definitely " ! As I said in You've Got Mail: "If you have pieces of unexcepted misfortune, ask how live I? " However, this is a " shy swan's quick glance " Life of hour,it is getting more magnificent like summer flower in love, transient! When I needed him most, but he has left lightly!
Family, friend urge again and again, all think I have grown up, have not solved, it is very difficult to run into the suitable person of the appropriate husband. Then, blindly date, there is so many " the Great Northern Wilderness " in Beijing ,Who afraids whom! As a result, each blind date, all end in failure, more disappointed.
Often, I introspect oneself deeply, why loner of thirty years of age? Review, review, I think, first, the life circle is little, it is not wide enough to exposed to the surface; Second, mustn't place the man too tallly and expect, except gender, the man is like woman, it is weak that strong to have, the ones that should relent them are wildly arrogant and inmature; If this lifetime can not really meet the person that can ask all the life, then, try hard to let one's own single life a bit happier: Shopping, eating table delicacies, listening to the music, indulging in the bar, reading From originally to end, transition, everybody transient guest, encircle a city internal and external people everybody has his own troubles life, so, everything makes the best of things! Who says singly that is destined to be lonely, lonely and ashy?



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