Psychology in adolescence of the contradiction

Psychology in adolescence of the contradiction
The behavior that the teenager in adolescence of the contradictions of independence and dependence stresses on the psychological characteristic most is that adult's sense appears, independent consciousness strengthening the teenager therefrom. If they have been unwilling to receive parents' too much treatment or intervention in life gradually, otherwise the psychology produces bored feeling; To some judgements of things merits, it is unwilling to accept parents' opinion, and there is hope on one's own opinion of strong manifestation; Hold the heterodoxy to some traditional, authoritative conclusions, will often put forward the word of too drastic criticism. But because social experience, deficiency of experience of life its, often rebuffed, can't from the intersection of parents and the intersection of searching and method, route or help that, can't combine with in economy the independence, parents' authoritative function forces him to rely on parents again. Adult sense and inmature the intersection of contradiction and adolescence of sense psychological characteristic of teenager especially represent, appear the intersection of adult and sense ---Think oneself already ripe, has grown to manhood. Therefore in some behavioral activity, thinking realizing, social communication,etc., demonstrate " The adult " Design. In the psychology, wish eagerly others regard him as the adult, respect him, understand him. But insufficient because of age, the limitation of social experience and experience of life and knowledge, often blindness is relatively great on thought and behavior, it is apt to do the foolish thing, foolish thing, there is obvious child air, inmature. The contradiction juvenile needs and peers of adolescence of the opening and closeness, especially with opposite sex, and parents' equal contacts, they wish eagerly he opens soul wide to treat each other between each other as oneself. But because everybody's personality, idea differ, make this kind of respect of theirs unable to find the target that discharge, it is here to tell " The diary " In. The innermost thoughts and feelings that these diaries write down, because of the self-esteem, unwilling to be known by him, then form and want to let others understand as well as fear the contradiction psychology which others find out about. The ones that craved for the teenagers in adolescence of contradiction of the sense and sense of depression because of sex are developmental and ripe, respect of associating with the opposite sex. For example like being close to the opposite sex, want to understand sex knowledge, like displaying oneself in front of the opposite sex, even present dim love thought,etc.. But because the restraint, restriction of school, parents and public opinion, make the teenager in adolescence have contradiction state of depression crave for too shy to display very much as well as in the understanding of the emotion and sex. Making by oneself and excited teenager in adolescence of contradiction are while psychological independence, adult's sense appear, consciousness and making by oneself have been enhanced, with others' contacts, they hope subjectively oneself can be in accordance with the rule consciously at any time, strength does duty, but often difficult to control one's own emotion well objectively, act rashly sometimes, make oneself fall into and want to control oneself, but in the flammable contradiction. The psychology in adolescence is forming in such a contradiction and becoming more and more ripe slowly, it is a natural course. Parents should pay attention to respecting and believing in the child, exchanging with child more emotions, find out about his psychology, assist children to substantiate and meaningful one's own life. It is helped and the more important thing is the child correct understanding this one " The forbidden zone " Content. Transfer it to from the health 888

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