Is it essential for the wink this time to get married? Time of _'s love

Is it essential for the wink, this time, to get married? Time of _'s love

Facing the interrogation that a lot of young people wondered while accepting everybody's blessing, they ask: This time, is there necessity of marriage?
We have already gone to the freedom to choose one's spouse of today since the times of the go-between's speech; From entering that of bridal chamber
Truth that just gained experience the other side from that time in the room, the present meeting at any time arrives, " discuss " unscrupulously The love, and even say good-bye unprincipledly Since it is already so easy to meet, it makes it so easily to talk love, even to divorce so at will, do we really have a necessity of marriage?
Say that is as far apart as heaven and earth till now and in the past. Premature love, overly frivolous emotion, premature cohabitation life, flavour of the premature attempt marriage, all these have already let the mystery of the marriage drop to zero, though there is not that certificate, however, everything of marriage life is not strange for a lot of people. Needn't get married, I know it is sweet or hot that you like eating, what color of socks are liked, which kind of type opposite sex to like, like brushing teeth and washing the face first first, like wearing left hand or right hand first while wearing the clothes I am familiar with your everything very much, that has become a part in my life, like that birthmark on one's body, innate, why uncalled-for, waste the spirit, go that certificate of neck I then?
See young lover bill and coo, accompany travel, this from carry into lines of inconceivable thing in the eyes in older generation, , can't be more natural too now, go out, get accommodation someone come, question you have a marriage certificate no longer too, save a lot of awkwardness and trouble. That it is very difficult for people to guess whether two people are finally lover or couple now.
Began from the love that day, we let oneself imagine, meet the life after marriage, including friend, even relative of habits and acquired characteristics of life, detail, the other side, began to carry on the exercise of everything that the living needs of the marriage were gone through long ago, get involved per inch of land of the other side's life. Then, does not get on very well so, is it really unnecessary to get married?
In a lot of young people's view, passionate the certificate has no difference, the ones that should have all have, all enjoyment that the marriage can be enjoyed, if not want to give children a legal proper status, really there is no need to get married. But assert on former generation and some thoughts of young people with conservative tradition, without book of that wedding, without status, it is nameless to finish apprenticeship, especially in front of some elders, speak all the time enough to have spirit, meet, may give you, acknowledge even while being old fashioned and inflexible always.
Get married? Do not get married? Each says he is right, have pros and cons each too, how about choose, all watch to each one.


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