It is bribed that seven wise moves succeed time of _'s love of man's heart

It is bribed that seven wise moves succeed time of _'s love of man's heart


Mrs. Carnegie leaves some suggestions on women in book of " ripe glamour of making you such ", this 7 below A wise counsel is " How to get along with the man " Secret:
1 . Understanding
A woman stenographer, type the speed very slow, make mistakes frequently, but is not fired by the boss. An important reason why she is stayed is that she has a very good temper, like a happy angel, can enable the office entirely " Full of sunshine " . So long as she is present, can shield all complaint, complaint and censuring in the whole office one by one.
2 . Company
In the first 16 years when a lady is getting married, busy looking after family all day, but she always thinks oneself is deficient to some extent. One day, she finds, does not have some common hobbies oneself and husband. She realized, ignored and accompanied the husband originally. Then, she is looking forward to every match like husband; Still in the electricity
Look at and draw the match and relay time on the newspaper. Soon, she appreciates the match with husband, no longer a person sits aside alone. In order to accompany the husband, she feels she has increasingly much thing to do.
3 . The society listens
At the animated time that speaks of first man, you sit opposite to him silently, that is not here " Hear " . " hear " It is a kind of initiative behavior, the meaning lies in being interdynamic and exchanging. The qualified one " The audience " Besides wanting it diligently, should participate in actively, it is not respectful to chip in the side frequently, but should put forward the question, especially valuable question at any time.
4 . Meet his impulse
A man likes spending holidays very much. In the afternoon one day, he phones wife: "My dear, please pack the luggage at once, we will be going to Bermuda to spend holidays tomorrow. " The clever wife fills the nightdress in the leather trunk immediately; Send pet's parrot to the neighbour's and foster; Phone relatives and friends, cancel various appointments. Early in the morning, they husband and wife caught the early ship, went to Bermuda together the next day. Once a lot of men have minds, would like to be put into practice at once. So, so long as the mood meeting the man early is changed, even excited, can catch his heart steadily.
5 . Must guard against issuing order
Some women of exceptional talent and ability are in the face of the man of the heart appearance, it is the woman to often ignore oneself, busy showing one's own ability, can't help issuing order to the man, the happy fate which brings lovers together that it is good that the result regrets to lose. Until one day, as these women begin to admit failing, and realize the truth to some extent, change the way to conduct oneself and deal with matters, with " little woman " The posture lets the man appreciate, " repaired into a right fruit " at last . So woman want, say efficiency while working, do things while being in a conscientious and down-to-earth manner; After the work, should learn to relax, let the man feel that is following a woman, but not date with a diligent brain.
6 . Become yourself
The basic principle of ripe life is " Become yourself " . If the woman does not believe this, think that makes the man fascinated or conquers men by changing appearance, for example use the famous-brand cosmetics, wear the famous-brand fashion, often vary the fashionable hairdo etc.. In fact, the man is not so silly, they will not assess the opposite sex according to appearance. So, the mature women should tear and leave " packing " early ,Unfold actual oneself to the man.
7 . Don't underestimate oneself
If a woman always thinks all men are an enemy, sure to be thought oneself to be this victim of the world, it is very difficult to establish friendship and intimate relation with the opposite sex. If so, want to establish good relation with the opposite sex including husband, should be proud of one's own women's identity first. The woman should accept one's own gender happily, because this kind of acceptance is not merely a kind of healthy philosophy of life, it is a sign of the mature women even more.


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