The husband likes me " Pester "
To work together the friend praise me for being young, feeling oneself it is the same of me. I know this is because I have a happy family, have a happy and harmonious love. In one springtime 13 years ago, 22 -year-old I and husband know accidentally, he was still a university student at that time. I expect, fall in love can talk to him, but he while close to graduatinging, make a decision, stay in hometown of me, we connected with hands and had not drawn yet at that time. The first contact is while graduating from to go back to his hometown his university with him. That morning, the god was dim and dim and bright yet, my eye was bad, high a kick was low to walk on the mountain path by one try, dog's bark has come in the front again, I am afraid. He hold hand of me in a hurry, use the intersection of he and effective arm my hoop tightly. I have a feeling of the heartbeat for the first time. Will pass Gui Lin in the way to go home, we have got off at Gui Lin, plan to travel for two days. Get back to hotel evening, I have lie in bed behind the bath, he sit by bed, slowly unwilling to move, I urge him go, sleep, he say I kiss he he move right away. I have kissed on his face carelessly, he says with a smile: "Why you can not kiss to connect, it should be such. " Going to bed saying him kisses my lip. After getting home, we got the marriage certificate at once, but the wedding was fixed on April of the coming year. He had a sentimental attachment for me more and more, kept close, could not break to him one day, submit to him. Have the first time, then or the second time, the third time, and I begin, experience among them and beautiful too, also it is more and more due to him to make. Can pass for two months, I am proved pregnant, he accompanies me to the hospital and makes the stream of people. This period of time, I become very agitated, often angry, does not think he makes allowances for me, make me pregnant and suffer hardships. In April of second year, we held the wedding at last, just this month, I was pregnant again. Pregnant in 7 months, because the husband can't restrain, my premature delivery. In November when the baby caught in it coldly, later, because attend to and can not want to be neonate's hard swollen disease, die young half a month later. This has given me a very big blow, my health becomes weaker too. Postpartum is just full February, I am pregnant again. The son was born smoothly this time. It is born pregnant but in succession, my health is very weak, often ill, in addition is busy taking trival matters of house work such as children,etc. all day, by evening, only want to sleep, the requirements for husband are adopted and tried one's best to push away, can't really push away on the perfunctory method that deals with, moreover, uses this unique skill of different rooms if often angry in all one's life yet. Recall initial marriage life, because is too young, because there is no experience, at a loss as to what to do because of preparing. Remember now it is really too regrettable, this each should be the most wonderful time in life newly-married the beginning that let down. I want to change dull marriage life very much, then encourage the husband to study, two people separate for some time. The husband has been also really admitted to, temporarily released from one's regular work and receive a training for two years in the provincial capital that go not including thousand li. For lighten burden of me, husband hand over, return to homeland 3 -year-old son. This was getting quiet suddenly in family quickly, there is no confusing matter in home in the daytime, there is no ceaseless sex to pester in the evening, I am so glad, plan to read several books in free time, write several articles. But I feels uneasy if husband and son have walked for one week, especially there is not the gathering around of husband in the evening, toss about in bed especially. The separation in two years, I experienced the agony taken leave of, experienced the happiness of meeting too. Remember once missing him very much, look for an excuse, asks for three days off, has gone to the school by the cars of 15 hours to see him, only in order to settle that strong miss. We are gathering around, kiss for a long time, pour out for a long time, I say: "I am missing you all the time. " He says: " I am too! " Night touching then, so far still in aftertasting. The husband graduated at last, and transferred to a more ideal unit, the son has gone to school too. Husband and I have reached thirty years of age, my body is much better than before. In couple's life, I no longer dislike the " pestering " of the husband ,And the one that grow to like him " Pester " ,Even go voluntarily sometimes and he " Pester " . My very strange one's own change, looked for some books of sexual life to be read later, just know all these are normal. Once saw a word in a book: "The sexual love is the woman's best cosmetics. " Really so, sexual love these years is moist, make us make affection getting continuous each other, happiness of making us physical and psychological and health. Lie by the husband each time, is watching he while sleeping soundly attentively, I say in the heart: "If let me reselect, I think, I will still choose to have your life again without the least hesitation. " (the health network of three nine-day periods after the winter solstice)
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