What if the husband wreck me?

What if the husband wreck me?
I am 42 years old this year, it is several decades to get married. I and my husbands are both workers. When we just got married, he has ability of some, we have given birth to a child. However, he is more and more not all right later, have already reached the intensity that can't erect at all. My this kind of situation to him, has not said anything, has not expressed any opinion either, I have disloyalty, think we, for house, have child is mediocre with and live. However, my husband is very unnatural. He himself's having ability, are tormenting me constantly. He not only hits me and scolds me for no reason at all usually but also often kick my lower part of the body with the foot. Sometimes he returns the outbreak of brutish nature, put the things in my vagina, so painful that I am half dead and half alive. Can't really stand his wrecking, propose divorcing with him. He listens to and torments me more terribly, he says fiercely: "You dare to go out of one step of doors of mine, you dare to divorce with me, I kill and try your family best, let your parents, brother and you perish together. " I am desperate, can not really live on, what should I do? Your stating said that sympathized with your experience very much. You have already stood the inhuman life for many years. Your husband not only hit you and scold you but also wreck you, it is really a cruel and inhuman behavior. I think, he is because the disease leading to the fact psychology with physiological sex is unusual. A man often thinks so he is a man, it is in the ability that he has the sexual behavior that display at first. He does not have this ability now, he is from will think in the heart of hearts oneself is like a manning. He develops into to one's own despair the wife's hatred, hates her for her ability with the sexual behavior, there are normal people's sex demands, have normal people's sexual organs. So, he hits you, places on hitting your lower part of the body especially. Wreck, come from a kind of jealous abnormal psychology you, if the intersection of you and ability of person who lose too some day, psychology of him will from out-of-balance to transfer to balanced then; I feel husband of you whether the intersection of sex and psychology appear issue of obstacle not merely in talk of you, and already developed into the personality obstacle. He becomes selfish and cruel and ferocious, he is unwilling to well live with you, do not allow you to divorce him again, and threaten to kill the whole family which try you best, this personality that shows him is very unhealthy, it is impervious to reason. You have not talked about, your husband becomes so unnatural and lets the doctor make a diagnosis and give treatment. If not, you might as well mobilize him to consult to treat to the psychological clinic, treating obtains the result, all good things to you couple. If it is not good to do it in this way, you will really seek the method to free. The country issued the legal right rights and interests which ensured women of expressing regulations of " woman's rights and interests guarantee law " implemented in 1992, you should use this law as the weapon without protecting yourself. Your husband's present behavior, there are two legitimate rights and interests of encroaching on you at least. First, " women's rights and interests guarantee law " ensures woman's personal right, forbid slaughtering, maltreating women by means of violence, but your husband injures you wantonly, especially to your going on injury, second, the country ensures women's marital autonomy, including freedom and divorced freedom of marriage. His looks threat of your whole family in order to murder, deprive your divorce freedom. So, law is stand at you,there are unnecessary to be take the bitter with the sweet on you, stoop to compromise, and should struggle with his wrong behavior with perfect assurance and safeguard your own legitimate rights and interests. According to your present situation, your personal strength of river can not change the situation that you are injured, you should seek the help of the society. All provinces and cities makes and stores and passes specification and implementing regulations of " woman's rights and interests guarantee law " according to the actual conditions of this area now. In the regulations that every area makes, a very important one is executive body to be implemented woman's rights and interests guarantee. There are organizations carried out, the women's right is encroached on, complain that there are doors, " woman's rights and interests guarantee law " would not become a scrap of paper. National regulation, the people encroached on have the right to require relevant responsible institutions to deal with, or bring a suit before people's court in accordance with the law. You can also seek the help of the women's organization. You can go to Women's Federation Organization and residents committee of the street to report situations, require them to investigate and offer you help Women's Federation Organization of each district consist of rights and interests department, and set up to the specially of the law in order to encroach on women of advice office and carried on legal advice. In addition, your husband has already shown the motive of killing, his personality and psychology are all imperfect, if you resist his control on you, he may demonstrate crazily and losing reason, one cannot say for sure will not make the thing of injuring your family, so, when you seek to help in the Women's Federation and residents committee of the street, should also seek the help of the law department. You can go to the local police station, the local police station is a public security department the basic unit accredits the organization the most. Want to kill your family him, tell them the situation that you slaughter. Ask them to appear, intervene this kind of state, try to ensure the personal security of you and your family. You had better strive for to your unit support and assistance to you. No matter prevent his sex to you from wrecking, or achieve the goal of divorcing smoothly, you need, get in many aspects help if the intersection of way and you these try, the problem can not be still solved. I advise you to give women newspapers and periodicals etc. to propagate media and write and report situations, maybe influence and pressure that the public opinion exerts will help you to wave and take off the present predicament. I wish you would liberate from agony as soon as possible.

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