The husbands " The odd habit "

The husbands " The odd habit "
Speaking of the sexual love, we can not avoid such a fact: The harmonious happiness of couple life, it is due to the close cooperation of both sides. But because the psychological characteristic of the man women's physiology, sex has differences, it can't be " in perfect domestic harmony " to cause wife's change in sex to the husband ,Even cause couple to divorce from this. Though there is lacking and factor on the method skill of sex knowledge inside, but it is the contradictory main reason that intensity of couple's knowledge of the other side's physiology, psychological characteristic is not deep. Look, some the intersection of wife and letter or incoming telegram reflect husband of them some make people " odd habit " different to stand always in sexual love . Like " kissing furiously " One husbands person saying in letter there are for pieces of stalwart manning the husbands on she wife, what does it do rash and too much in a haste all, connect, kiss the same, to kiss, make unable to breath furiously him she sometimes, she is a little puzzled and even repugnant for this. Couple are affectionate, always kiss inevitably. This is a direct expression of love, blameless. Fanatic kiss, the passion is bold and unrestrained, demonstrate a kind of love eagerly; But gentle kiss, joyous and pleased that can bring the unexpected one to somebody. The lip is the important sensitizing range of sex that the human body is second only to genitals and breast, some people even only can reach the somewhat sex excitement state through kissing. Someone think, kiss, get on, say the love in movements mostly furiously, but enable people to sample the wife's breath and deep friendship gently better. But various ones that kiss the way and transmit finally are one's own love to the wife. Kiss the choice more lying in whether both sides can obtain excitement, joyful feeling while kissing from this kind of the way. What has been kissed way because of people, vary with hour,needn't impose unanimous. As the wife, should get rid of at first: He do it in this way only because of " The man's rudeness " ; Or lack experience, will not " kiss " ; Or is misled by the exaggerative lens in the movie TV, does not think by mistake " overbearing " A little is not love. This needs your observation and inquiry: He could let oneself or the other side feel excited and pleasant sensation only in this way. You can't evade this kind of partiality of his either, but should show to him clearly at the same time, this kind kisses and makes people a little difficult to accept furiously, whether can change into gentle kiss. Use teeth " Kiss " A young married woman of people's husband says during consultation of sex: "I have a feelings one wishes to keep to oneself that does not know how to ask, does not dare to tell husband. The husband often bites me while making love, not very heavy at first, but a groan at the time of I excitement, the more excited the husband seems, grip more hard, will be gripped the mark of bleeding sometimes. I do not dare to struggle, am not only afraid of sweeping his excitement but also afraid he bites heavierly, very tense and afraid in the heart He is sexual to maltreat inclining? " The touch way in couple activity is numerous, it is the most direct, warmest to kiss. Accumulate constantly as movement of caressing, must with kiss, come sex that express tense while becoming greatest, no matter men and women will all present the trend of using teeth to kiss. Certainly, this is gripping gently and lightly, some husbands like this way very much, so that become a kind of sex partiality. A normal one light to grip, take place in the intersection of sexual activity and nervous moment generally, most easy to bite neck and papilla of women man have, also often on the left, there are sides of belly, this was mainly determined in the body posture in the sexual activity. Caress, light to grip generally unlikely to get broken skin, too may reach appear the intersection of blood and intensity of mark. Person make love warmly, like, leave, print by a deep tooth at the shoulder in the intersection of sex and companion, regard it as the commemoration of the love, this kind of psychology is not abnormal. In the intersection of love and life, from normal to morbid state, from change to all stages that relax delicately while being tense, it is very difficult to limit every stages strictly. However, if when it is light to be caressed and grip, the body or psychology experiences the agony that can't stand, should consider may person who store in maltreat inclination in the sexual behavior of the other side. " dirty " Words pages and pages the intersection of husband and one marry the intersection of young married woman and person who come for two year just the intersection of consultation and clinic say to doctor, the husband becomes obscene after marriage, cast doubt on their marriage. Inquire, her husband always likes saying some vulgar " dirty " instead of while making love originally in detail by the doctor Words are intolerable to the ear. She feels very bad, very repugnant. She, too as facing the husband to propose, don't say those " dirty " while making love , should be a bit more elegant. In fact, her husband is very polite at ordinary times, why become " obscene " suddenly when couple makes love ? Both sides provoke, flirt, talk about some languages about the sexual love each other when couple make love, normal originally, especially excited to induce issues of longer woman to sex, seem more necessary. Usually woman's sex is excited to relatively mobilize men slowly, often need longer time. In this period of time, the thing which the husband wants to do, except stroke the wife's sensitizing range of sex, it is an important respect too that the the language one is provoked. At this time, say some kisseds each other, exchanging feeling, talk about some information and joke about the sex, it is very helpful to strengthening and accelerating the wife excitement. Speaking from the physiology, " dirty " that said alone Sentence and general language do not have the unusual place to express. But the civilization (the embodiment on inhibitory activity of cerebral cortex) that people have Will let" Dirty " Export. But because the high excitement of whole body at the time of the sexual life, the cerebral cortex will lose inhibitory activity temporarily or partly, " originally I " Will break through " Oneself " Obstruction. Then, " dirty " Having bored out in is unconscious in one kind, this theory implies, those cannot help speaking and taking " color " when enjoying is being happy Person,it is put by sexual love into not to can forget by I place. It is obvious, say some words intolerable to the ear at ordinary times in sex excitement among couple, it is understandable, and there is no fault, let alone say it is obscene. This kind of difference traditionally, can pass the exchange on the thought among couple, reach and understand each other and suit finally. I find in the consultation of sex, speak to take " color " in couple love Person man exceed woman. Imagine whom one women that are can open and easy will obtain physiology and psychology in sexual love joyful while being difficult very. We have asked those and can obtain women of the orgasm 5 or more times in 10 sexual lives on this question, their answer is: " the dirty word, which had any dirty word at that time, unless you regarded sexual life as the dirty one! " This is explained even more by a theory than the consultation doctor of sex. It is here that the best player thing is put " Bright " A gentleman of husband in the place tells his difficulties to the doctor during consultation of sex: "It was to forbid me to turn on the light that the wife cooperated with me least while making love, I have this hobby, because I want to see the twitching of one's own penis, And experience the arrival of the orgasm by such vision. In addition, I want, observe at wife's happy expression in being excited also, all these will make my body and mind receive the greatest satisfaction. But I first turn on light she turn off immediately, each locked in a stalemate, have, spoil the fun really each time. " Happen couple thing when being bright, naturally can it wins high strength visually to be amazing, especially the detail of the other side's body structure, cover all at one glance, therefore psychological " obtain the sense " Satisfied. And the abundant change of the other side's facial expression, comes clearly into view especially, then has felt one's own essential strength, feel the recognition of the other side, thus stimulate oneself, input more actively, make the sexual love reach the supreme level in power after all. But want, know, it evokes sex of woman to be through touch, kiss, embrace mainly, sexual intercourse come on, realize, the woman's sex feels that overweights sense of touch, so women like and indulge in caressing mostly. Moreover, how much always some shy psychology are women to the sexual behavior, it furthermore help abundant her sex imagination to close one's eyes. Women concentrate main energy on imagining, realizing, feel perfect, happy sexual life. All these can be more easy to finish in with unclear sight cases, if the light is too bright, " bright illusion " Will give a great discount, and will often dilute to " private and secret " in the mankind psychology Pursuit,too can make that human body to expose defect. Happen couple thing when being pitch-dark, " private and getting secret " Totally secure, both sides can fine long hair abandon dignity without hesitancy, decontrol mood, get involved whole-heartedly. But however, any is not stimulated, does not appreciate the other side at all visually, take oneself into consideration, take a part for the whole totally, satisfaction of body and mind its, can because of lacking exchange of spirit forever difficult to surmount the genitals of the lower, keep in touch competence too, make people feel beast kind primitive a little. So couple make love turn on light, turn off the light, can't treat as the same while being kind well. The most ideal couple love the environment, it should be in " private and secret " Under the prerequisite fully ensured, adopt the low luminance to light appropriately, its luminance, in order to see the outline, do not see the detail clearly. Select from the family doctor

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