Husband He Ri " The sex is caused " Come

Husband He Ri " The sex is caused " Come
Every have more than woman of marriageable age for less than ten year, should understand how strong it will be one's own sexual desire of husband, but should know very accurately where they are once breaking into the passion quarter not every woman can grasp. Living together with husband the experience in 20 years on me, I think the man's sexual desire is sometimes high and sometimes low, affected greatly by different fields. The woman because of the physiological reason, even if accept passively that can finish the sexual life, the man does not just have such good luck. When remembering falling in love, husband and I are occupied with nothing, miss the other side in whole attention, not stopping kissing once meeting every night, the husband's sexual desire was very strong at that time, I thought the man was like this generally. Happy wedding couple are from the first day to 15 even more, it is untiring to produce clouds with one turn of the hand and rain with another, does not know at all that there is existence of external world. The husband is very less than satisfactory in the unit in that period of time, when it is very low to meet and lead difficult and sulky mood, need my tender feeling even more. Have several so angry that stomach ache in husband for unit thing, it banters to be under the comfort also coax and in me, disappeared if the stomach aches after passing the sexual life. We call this kind of moment " The love of the disease " (" AIDS " Backdraft of the sound) . When I think the man weak too, when he feels bad, I especially take the initiative, use " love of the disease " Go to treat his psychological wound. With opening the paces of the reform, we have entered the ranks of striving too. Study, having an examination, job-hopping, earning money, the work is tense day by day, the rhythm of life is accelerated day by day, our energy has been shifted from the sexual love out, the number of times of the sexual life has been reduced. Because working properties are different, all of us are absorbed in one's own career, there are few common topics, but life has been substantiated more. The husband can put expertise to good use, my " love of the disease " There is no market. Though should foster children, we still snatch a moment's leisure from a busy schedule and pass the sexual life of last time, but was far from in the past being so touching far, the husband in advance would say some called my baffled words like a general just before a battle: "The undertaking is heavy! The people in middle age, can't relax! " Meet, have important thing want, make tomorrow, he belong to unwilling sexual life. I am very strange, have 24 hours each day, it influences the undertaking totally to use making love in 20 minutes in this way? The man has too made a fuss over a trifling matter. Say on a book: " the woman can do several things at the same time, the man can only do a thing at the same time " ,It is probably this meaning. I watch psychology of him, to want, suppress the intersection of foot and strength, tighten, put each nerve into undertaking, unwilling to be the fighting will of influencing him that love between man and woman is long. Once career of him have progress, come back home, come, right away terribly, hold son and me ask kiss and, accurate proposing requirement at night of it. " love of the disease " Having become and boasted of one's bit of contribution to know, it seems that it is for success which reveals him to make love. The feeling stronger and stronger oneself of the husband, begin from the sexual life, everything regards him as the centre, he no longer in need of me comfort when losing, is when meeting the setback agitated to stamp with fury. I feel very hurt and wronged, it seems that I am a piece of old utensils, furniture, etc., lose on one side when being it is unnecessary. My sexual desire is influenced by period, but the success or failure of menstrual cycle and husband is not identical, I am unwilling to quarrel with him for this, always not happy in the heart. Once the husband has done a successful thing, when he is giving cause for complacency for oneself, I get rid of a few words of his coldly: "There is nothing to be amazing, I am not the woman with bound feet wanting you to raise, you are glad I must follow, you know when I am glad? " Two Buddha's warrior attendant of his Zhang can not touch the head immediately: "How, you? Is my success your success? A woman of low birth may marry into the purple from ancient times so. " I cry: "I cherish you a woman of low birth may marry into the purple, I have cause have incomes too, were not supported the family by you. " The husband says I plague with unreasonable demands, the victory meeting at this night has not been turned out to be. I communicate ideas with the husband voluntarily afterwards, make him understand my feeling, he says frankly: "This is easy to handle, why did you say earlier? When did you wanted to notify me afterwards. " Though he says so in the mouth, I know his sexual desire is influenced by mood, the I actually has no initiative, mood is completely bad while meeting the low ebb of his undertaking, where is touching attention? I early morning bed go to sleep by all means. Arrange celestial palace pieces of house, he does not look at either. In fact I understand the husband's ideal and aspiration very much, this society regards man as the centre, they regard the undertaking as the most important part in the life, but I have in order to do feeling the grievance of the woman. It is considered carefully that thin, can't we take the initiative in the sexual life? Come, it says to be all right from emotion, come, say how make one heart full of anxious husband of helplessness in full of more passion of love in the twinkling of an eye from physiology? In order to let husbands care about more of me, I have changed the past attitude, care about his career very much at first, listen to him explaining " major issue outside " patiently . Look like caring and sing more songs of praise in his success in the child's homework, when he is vast and hazy, says he likes hearing some, cooperate with on one's own initiative when he needs me, the trival matters that will never take the family at ordinary times trouble him. In this case, we share the common fate, he has cared about me more, still ask voluntarily once in a while: "Have reached your cycle? " Probably reciprocate, I am very glad. It is the most cumbersome method to complain about and contend with somebody, so long as the husband can keep the good state of mind, can keep his sexual desire and deep feelings to me. I think no matter first woman in sexual life, family or cause, have spirit willing to be green leaves. Because happiness of us tie at body of husband all, husband " the sex send to " no ,Where does the love come from?

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