What a treating cold wife the husband is

What a treating cold wife the husband is
It is the situation that the men and women will meet that the should say ing is cold, but the statistics materials are told us, there are more and heavier women than men. An item of survey materials shows: It is cold that 26% of the married woman suffer from the sex at various degrees. So, as cold that the husband should pay special attention to one's own spouse, even more should learn how come on cold wife of treating etc..
In fact, it can be aware of at the newly-married night that the wife is cold. Generally speaking, the lover begins to certainly when being married in terms of the wedding reach the happy stage success will come after conditons are ripe of two feelings, must have gone through billing and cooing, love season amidst flowers and in the moonlight in the middle of this. If Women Friend has been sexual and cold early, always behave in the usual's contacts course to some extent, such as fearing the intimate behavior of embracing, kissing etc., and the whole course of love is difficult to insist on marriage stage. If sexual and cold women insist on the newly-married night, then the first contact of the sexual life will make the husband feel disharmonious and unpleasant, because the wife may demonstrate wilting, very reluctant attitude, the husband must not take action roughly, but should caress patiently at this moment, wife's entering excited state progressively that as much as possible to make. If husband's sexual intercourse reluctantly and rudely, the sex that will make a latent to the psychological or physiological wound which the wife brings originally one may be slight in the newly-married first night is obvious and serious coldly, this may be true love her husband is quite unexpected.
After finding the wife sexual and cold, the husband's suspicion, discontented and cursing, so that can only make the situation more and more serious to hit at newly-married night, can't do! Should work from physiology and psychology two as wife's husband of the true love. Say from physiology, since already caused some wounds to the wife in the newly-married first night, it is essential in a few days to have a rest, should wait for wife's some wound to heal gradually.
Talk from psychology, the husband should have mental preparation to wife's doing for a long more time, patient and careful work. Should bill and coo in love season first, in the scene amidst flowers and in the moonlight, continue fostering the emotion while loving deeply, impel the wife to open the heart wide under scorching hot love and kind care, having a talk cold reason and evolution. If the wife can say the receiving plot with brutal infringement even sex in early years tearfully; If wife can accept incorrect sex education or afraid pregnant, situation that give a birth say young oneself tirelessly; If the wife can say that there is detesting or frightened feeling on man, we can say that has already obtained half the success, because can treat according to reason next.
After getting the wife cold first-hand materials, the husband wants the attitude in order to sympathize with and understand very much to treat the wife, must not irritate the other side with the speech disdained, disliked and avoided, otherwise the certain causing is aggravated coldly. The wholehearted husband who loves the wife should melt the ice-cubes in wife's heart with scorching hot love, shelter from and drive the shade shrouded on wife's mind with broad chest and strong both arms, make the wife feel there are one that trust, close, strong patron saint at the side, produce rely on, believe in and grateful feeling to husband, think, can it lives to be one happiness with such a man, requirement and desire that will be gradually sexual like this.
In daily life, the husband should make and caress movements, even cooperation that the overall arrangement, tone, sound of bedding of the bedroom are mere,etc. more, be favorable to the sexual lives of both sides, sex posture and behavior of avoiding adopting the wife to detest, select the way of the respect that she likes, can also make the sexual life easier appropriately with some lubricant, happier. Pay attention to paying attention to the skill of some, try hard to make the wife's sexuality peak.
Undergo above-mentioned efforts, situation of wife improve, accompany her reach the hospital do, check just yet, see what diseases there are? Check liver function, renal function, thyroid gland function, erythrocyte sedimentation rate and head CT,etc., especially run the inspection of the gynaecology and obstetrics, discover the problems to treat in time.
Sex is seldom been cold to be permanently been and lasting,can persevere husband from showing consideration for, showing loving care for, taking good care of wife physiologically or psychologically, the cold turning of the sex into excitement is within sight. Certainly ask if necessary the psychological doctor is very important too, the psychological doctor will instruct how the husband cooperate each other with the wife, coordinate each other, make both sides overcome progressively because the cold family that bring of the sex is worried.
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