ABC of the social field

ABC of the social field
Social activity, say, it is the interpersonal contacts with the popular words. Introduce some most basic, most general social knowledge here, wish the men to pass it, go to pursue and know more social knowledge and skill, make it have a successful career with the capable assistant with happy life as you actively. Wait for serving " whether sweep the courtyard, in order to meet the guest of honour " ,This guest comes, the enthusiasm that the master wants. Especially the man, guests have come in the family, must be hospitable and natural, must guard against being shy seeing people or affectedly shy. By meal time, should keep guests and have a meal warmly. When guests have not had a meal, the host mustn't put down the bowls and chopsticks first. Before guest leave, must guard against frequently watching tabling, in this way can make guest think you on the bottom " order for guests to leave " by mistake . Visit friends and visit the choice that friends should pay attention to time, had better notify the other side with the telephone or letter in advance, prevent the other side's having things, have no time to receive, or the other side is not at home, the situation that oneself fails to get. The visit had better avoid dinner time, if the habit that the other side has noon recess, should stagger the time after lunch. While visiting friends, should notice the appearance is neat, easy-mannered. If the interviewee is an elder, the master has not sat down, can't sit down first by oneself. In case of the accident can't go to fulfill an appointment, must try to notify the other side. The notice of really having no enough time, must explain the situation afterwards and and cause the apology. Attend a banquet and receive the invitation, should try hard to attend, and arrive on time, it is unlikely to don't keep everybody waiting. Should pay attention to the dress, instrument while attending a banquet. Combing, the tie one that the man should pay attention to one's own hair pitches respects such as the department,etc.. Get mat, should greet with host voluntarily, to guest one first regard. Especially to woman guest, elder, should be well-mannered, deport oneself in a dignified manner. The man will do things within the limits of one's own resources while drinking, the guests not deep drink together with intersecting, it is unsuitable to persuade frequently, don't flaunt the superiority still more, does not yield to each other. While saying good-bye to, should shake hands with host and other guests to say good-bye to and and express gratitudes the host. It is ill to visit patient's friend, colleague, we should be visited in time. While looking about, should buy some fruits or nutriment according to patient's condition. If the patient is the hospital treatment, the persons who are visited should pay attention to observing the relevant regulations of the hospital, it is being hard in visiting hours that want to walk and intrude upon. In ward, speak, take light on foot, don't bother other patient. When patient's condition is more serious, the persons who are visited don't reveal worrying or grieved expression too much, should give patient comfort more. Discuss some more delightful or comfort, give patient encouraging and confidencely. Must guard against having a long talk endlessly while visiting the patient, should let the patient take more time to rest. In case of other people are come to visit, should stand up and offer one's seat voluntarily, and take leave in time. And social activity and amusement form of the friendship of a kind of promotion associating in ball ball. In the ball, the man should pay attention to the following several points. Participating in the ball wants the appearance to be neat, the clothes should be elegant in appearance. Don't wear the leather shoes which are nailed the palm, so as not to damage dancing partner and floor. Generally the husband invites the wife to dance. Dance music, together, man can come to women invited, bow to half the wife, say: "Would you dance? " If the wife agrees, will stand up and dance; Unless show the wife unwilling, it or is there dancing partner already,man can't invitations of walking hard, can't fight for the dancing partner with others. When the music finishes, the husband should send the wife back to the original position voluntarily, and express gratitudes courteously. Form " LADY FIRST " Habit " LADY FIRST" It is English " Lady first " Meaning. After many friends who visits American-European countries come back, all sigh over with feeling for the respect to lady of men there. Get on or off the bus, pass in and out door, competent way it does shopping to be " the LADY FIRST " ,All these have already become a habit, no one thinks this has anything to " fall " The man " The share " . This deserves us " Introduce " (used after an attribute). The comity feminine half in some occasions, this is a man's virtue, and the educated manifestation too. Respect others, it is a kind of good character, reflect a kind of poise imbued with glamour too. Certainly, respect others should treat others as equals first, don't divide people into various grades and ranks, respect others' personality, does not do the thing of injuring others' personality; Secondly, will treat people with the gift. And as a man, should also learn to respect women. Unless at it get on the bus, slightly it is which hold back bold air,it last lady first at; While entering the door, cause more solicitous meanings, ask lady to be advanced, and might as well help her to pull the door; Meet contradictory, so long as principle matter, like, even don't spit and do the pubic region to be angry, Buddha's warrior attendant fight for a upper and lower level with ladies in glaring eyes. Man, if this can be done, ladies' respect to us admire, reduce because of this? Men, let us form " LADY FIRST " gradually Habit,because it is in this modern for gentleman virtues due. Transfer it to from the health 123

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