Interpersonal psychology of _ that the social joke should be just right

Interpersonal psychology of _ that the social joke should be just right
It is the best secret which furthers each other distance to joke in social life, as the saying goes: "People are in high spirits when involved in happy events. " Joke, had better choose when the other side is happy, or as the other side when the minor matter is angry, turn back the other side's mood through joking.




1,See the occasion, environment while joking

The occasion which keep silent that in the library, hospital,etc. to demand, don't joke, in making funeral arrangements etc. the grieved atmosphere, it is unsuitable to joke.

2,See the target while joking

As the saying goes: ldquo; The person is above 100, varied. rdquo; People's personalities are different. With relent magnanimous person, turn on some joke, perhaps it regulate the atmosphere, make a joke, stop before going too far.

3,Joking should pay attention to the content

While joking, it is healthy, humorous that should pay attention to the content, the ambience is graceful. In the social activity moves about, avoid opening the vulgar joke. Must not make fun of others' physiological defect, for example can not make fun of the physiological defect of the disabled person.

4,See time while joking

As the saying goes: ldquo; People are in high spirits when involved in happy events. rdquo; Joke, had better choose when the other side is happy, or as the other side when the minor matter is angry, turn back the other side's mood through joking.
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