The angry one overcomes _'s interpersonal psychology in the social activity
Get angry in the social life at will, will cause two kinds of bad consequences: Unfriendly to the angry target; It is disadvantageous to persons who get angry. Then, how should we go to overcome?
It is a kind of strong emotional responess produced when a person's subjective hope is contrary to objective things to get angry, , it can be discontented, angry, sulky, roused to anger and violent rage,etc. to a certain extent.
Get angry in the social life at will, will cause two kinds of bad consequences:
1,Unfriendly to the angry target, and the emotion that it will be wounded and kind, lose friend, friendship and trust between the colleagues.
2,It is disadvantageous to persons who get angry, have a bad impact on my health on one hand; On the other hand have bad influence on image of the persons who get angry, people will think he lacks training, should not deep friendship.
In social life, people adapt to the environment, and try to get approval and acceptance of the environment, also a kind of instinctive manifestation, it is mainly shown as to get along with friend, colleague friendly in social communication, do not get angry or not lose the temper, and restrain oneself from many aspects.
How to restrain and get angry?
1,Anything crops up to think deeply calmly.
2,Think about the other side more, consider the question from the view of the other side, find out one's own shortcoming from it, in order to revise one's own view better.
3,Gentle and courteous to people.
Everybody has one's own independent personality and unique individual character, all have their own life habits and acquired characteristics and interest hobby, do not have the life field which others interfere.
Respect others, fact shortcoming, in order to revise one's own view better; Gentle and courteous to people, can display one's own training, style and manner, can establish one's own good prestige, can gain more friends' trust and respect.
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