Interpersonal psychology of _ of morbid psychology in the social activity

Interpersonal psychology of _ of morbid psychology in the social activity
People live in the world, must participate in social communication, there are very great relations between the social range and everybody job, hobby, life style and geographical position, but in actual life, why some people can not always hand in the friend in the social activity, or has made friends soon, the friend leaves him again, and the relation with colleague is not harmonious at ordinary times.
Trace it to its cause, it is this kind of people that pays attention to the social centre out of formly, has hindered the normal development of the interpersonal relationships, and this kind of psychological condition, in fact it is the morbid psychology in the social activity.
The more commonly ones include the following aspects:
First, feel self-humiliation psychology some people, prone to the inferiority complex, even look down upon oneself, lack confidence, have no courage to handle affairs, overcautious, echo other people's views thoughtlessly, there is no one's own judgment. This kind of psychology, like not overcoming, will abrade people's unique individual character.
Second, timid and weak-willed psychology is mainly seen to having scanty experience of life, the experience is simpler, introverted, people not good at the words, because is timid and weak-willed, even if thinks the correct thing oneself in the social activity, through after careful consideration, but does not dare to express. Such psychological others can observe out too, the result produces the view on oneself, unwilling to become the good friend.
Third, suspect psychology some people to ask friend handle affairs, like, scrutinize the other side with the sight distrusted often, suspect for no reason, make groundless accusation, gossip, if some people ask the friend to handle affairs, but what are said to other people while asking about the friend and handling affairs. The result has influenced the relation between the friends.
Fourth, some people of antagonistic psychology are always easy to argue with others, in order to prove that does things creatively by oneself, to any thing, leave the merits alone, you agree, I think it bad; You say right, I say it makes others disgusted with oneself by mistake.
Fifth, do the psychological some people of play and regard making friends as and join in the fun on occasion, fickle, changeable, deal with everywhere, boast in love, speak the fine words in love, has seen one side with somebody, how deeply to will say and associate with somebody! This kind of people and people associate and just do the assume presentable looks, therefore there is no friend with deep emotion.
Sixth, greedy for money psychology Some people think make friends purpose only for " Utilize each other " ,See the friend useful to oneself, that can bring advantage to oneself associating, and often " Bite the hand which has fed one " . This kind seeks wealth profit, others' bad psychology of benefiting by sb's influence, will make one's own personality damaged.
Seventh, cold and detached the intersection of psychology and some people have no relations with own to various thing, cold and detached to treat, turn a deaf ear to, or think the speech acrimonious, with proud and aloof attitude and carrying oneself proudly wrongly, it is " personality " ,Cause others not to dare to be close to oneself, thus lose some friends.
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