It calls every day equal to having 15 cigarettes to study

It calls every day equal to having 15 cigarettes to study


One last ten thousand years ago, the mankind began gregarious life. But today of population explosion, always there are some people around, begin to be crushed by loneliness: It is bustling with activity, dissipated and luxurious and putting on a false show of peace and prosperity in jostling each other in a crowd on the subway, store Let us grow and send out the unprecedented feeling of loneliness. In recent years, the investigation of the American psychologist has offered the most effective evidence for modern city people's feeling of loneliness: In 400 interviewees, 100% of the people have claimed to had feeling of loneliness. An investigation that Sina Web has carried on reveals too, nearly 70% of the people say " loneliness is the normality of the life. "
It is a kind of lofty realm to different from the ancient and think it lonely, increasingly many research verifies, loneliness will psychological or physiological to bring the double blow to people. The latest research of U.S.A. even reveals, injure the body lonelily, equate with every day and get drunk or have 15 cigarettes.
Americans are one year and lonely 48 days
"Once, were regarded lonelily as a kind of noble sorrow. " Jung psychological referral centre of Suzhou supervises and guides kingdom's honour to say, there are only " sages " Just mix and enjoy equal popularity lonelily. Wang Wei's " lacks a person all over inserting Zhu cornel alone in the strange land for the stranger " It is a kind of alien's loneliness; Li Shangying " whether the setting sun limitlessly good, just close dusk " It is a kind of about loneliness late in one's life; Zhu Ge-liang's " bends one's back to the task until one's dying day " It is one kind nobody shares the loneliness of heavy load; That Xin Qiji "make railing all over,know nobody,climb by purpose " It is a kind of loneliness which lacks the bosom friend. Now, just like Zhang Chu sang in the song, the increasingly many person thinks" the lonely person is shameful " .
Miss Zhou fights in Beijing beyond leaving home 2000 kilometers alone, for her, in long holidays when others expected festival, but a kind of suffering for her. "Looking at glad going on a tour of a everybody of others, really unwilling to go to act as one is alien. Frequently, can only close oneself at home, sleep until great noon, then open eyes and lie in bed. " Almost the 50 -year-old tight gentleman and serve as leader in one organ, welcome and send off every day, there are many dinner parties sometimes Must " fight " ,Catch three or four pieces of field in a whole night. "At over 1 o'clock before dawn some day, crossed quiet Chang'an Avenue and went home by bus, felt very lonely suddenly. The person around, either ask favours of me, or I ask favours of them. Everybody meet and meet with a smiling face, shape and stranger of turning round. "
One in Europe reveals, nearly 1/3 of the people often feel lonely to 1200 investigations which adults does. On the latest magazine of a U.S.A. " personality and social psychology ", it lasts 30 years to find after following the trail of 5214 Americans Chicago University, a annual mean of people will feel lonely if a annual mean of people has 48 days. The investigation shows, if one carries " lonely virus " at one's side Friend,you are getting which fall into more lonely large 52% than ordinary person in possibility! Moreover, this kind of infection also has a Domino effect, even the friend who will involve the friend.

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