Treat another visual angle of obsession

Treat another visual angle of obsession
You smile so happily on the magazine, I really envy. I smile too sometimes, but not really laughed happily. Though someone helps me to cook and wash the clothes now, I needn't be done any things, but I must not substantiate to pass at all every day. I have suffered from obsession for already more than 6 years. For example, get up every morning and wear the clothes for at least 20 minutes, is as long as half an hour. The more urgent the more flurried in the heart, the more the clothes can not be worn in. That sweater is really very strange, this arm has been entered, another hand will be worn for several times again, I do not know me why the sweater will have such a big obstacle to dress, parents do not understand: The shorts hole of the sweater is so large, why not wear in? It is getting laughable for you to speak, one 23 -year-old guy, even clothes will wear, it would be better one 5, 6 -year-old child! But how I run also " I go to restrain those movements not reasonable hard, I wish that I will turn better miraculously to wake up one morning, all over light, what does in an expert way make, very confident. But it is still a former state to wake up every day, worry in order to wear the clothes. Over these years, I restrain oneself hard, but not cured it completely. I, through watching some books, has known some methods to treat obsession, it is a good method to relax France, either stand or lie or sit, relax all over, reach the selfless realm. I have tried, but failed. Excuse me, how could should I let oneself stand up easily. Rejoice my smile can infect so many very, I hope too my smile can take any sunshine for you. Having read your letter, I remember teacher Li WeiRong (famous family treats a master) at once A method to treat obsession: Consultant tell, take two steps forward while being every walk, by oneself to her, take, go backwards one, could go ahead again, so that can not advance a small Section in quite a while. Moreover, the more impatient, like this. For this reason, he is in severe pain. Mr. Li's response to here is: "Oh, is it true? Can you leave for me to see? " When the consultant demonstrates, Mr. Li does together accordingly too. "I find this is very interesting, as dancing! One, two, three, four " Just as you talked about, a prominent characteristic of obsession is that you pay attention to it. Lie in it, want, correct it, it to follow in about you like the shadow following the person. On the contrary, when you no longer regard it as the personal enemy to write in the heart, chat about equally, when you forget it unintentionally, it disappears without a trace too. Mr. Li has just transmitted and treated another visual angle of obsession to the consultant through this kind of way to play games: Since I can't eliminate it from me, then regard it as a friend. Learn to appreciate it, find it in the good side. And once you can admit it, and it live in harmony, does not often hang him in the heart again, perhaps you will find: It has already disappeared from you. I wonder whether Mr. Li's method has enlightenment to you? Perhaps, you can try, regard your every day's get-up course as the slow motion in the film; For not influencing your daily arrangement, you can let oneself be early to get up and wear the clothes in half an hour; You can imagine you to spend so long time wearing the clothes, must dress better, neater than others.

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