Research reveals : Parents accompany introversive child can play with personality sunshine

Research reveals : Parents accompany introversive child can play with personality sunshine
Accompany the introversive child to play with the car
Research reveal, accompany child play, for a moment, can let the intersection of personality and sunshine of him every day
Zhen work very busy by Ying and gentleman, son majestic to pay in the kindergarten at ordinary times while being majestic, often look after for the grandmother on weekend. A few days ago, majestic to say, want, make one postcard the present give Mr. as Thanksgiving Day while being majestic, want to ask mother to help to do together. Zhen Ying needn't just work overtime, accompanying the impressive strength to be majestic happily does the craft. Has not expected, after the postcard is done well, majestic and majestic and very happy, let go holding card nothing tightly. Early in the morning, the child jumped the tape and held them jumping in succession the next day " L The works " R Have gone to the kindergarten. As mother, tip Zhen feel one a different one happy and satisfied too at this moment.
In fact, have already taught experts how to propose, it is the best family education to accompany the child to play early abroad. A few days ago, according to the central network report of U.S.A.'s psychology, it is here to issue>A latest research on the periodical further reveals, it is played, exchanged together with child that there are many parents, help the intersection of teenagers and issue, even psychological health grow up, its, reduce they appear the intersection of personality and risk of obstacle. Person in charge, nerve science and cognitive psychology professor invited specially Mark of university once of writing brush of American guest of this research? Lunzen and Wagle explains, while it is positive and interdynamic to carry on with parents every day, the child will imitate the adult's social skill and method of conduction in society, learn to deal with the problem that oneself faces calmly, thus improve the psychological holding capacity, the personality will be more optimistic, sunshine.
However, an investigation of the Chinese preschool education research association home education research association reveals, compared with the situation 10 years ago, the parents liking to take time and accompanying the child to play have reduced. A lot of parents give the child to the kindergarten, TV and network game. The clinic of children of the sixth hospital of Peking University, the behavior problem expert of children associate professor of treatment Gu BoMei say to this, parents' company can not lack absolutely for every child. Parents need to choose the appropriate interdynamic game according to the child's age.
As to the infant under the age of 3, parents can accompany the child to read some pictures pointedly more, for example put an intact horse and picture of a horse which lacks a leg in front of the child at the same time, let him point out the difference between two pictures, train the child's outsight, concentration,etc.. The child over 3, can pay attention to the training for manipulative ability and imagination. Through putting up the building blocks together, train the child's outsight, coordination ability; Through doing craft, compiling the story,etc., train the child's creativity and language ability,etc..
Meanwhile, can also choose the interdynamic game according to the child's personality. The active child can choose the static game, such as building blocks, jigsaw,etc., help children to revise the active individual character; The weak child of ability to express, parents can accompany him to tell a story, improve the child's language ability through the method of repeating, questioning etc.; The unsociable and eccentric child can choose the dynamic toy, such as voice control toy car,etc., let in child's course of chasing the car, the happy and self-confident feeling emerges, become optimistic vivaciously gradually . (Chen Yun )
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