What the analysing and explaining occupies is puzzled

What the analysing and explaining occupies is puzzled
In the modern society, most people enter marriage life from freedom to choose one's spouse. In the newly-married signs of getting drunk, two lives blending hope to occupy each other, the sexual life is warm but happy. Can only keep but this kinds of situation by about half a year,after enter by issues dull. At this moment, couple's sexual life is only the mechanical repetition, even the appearing is cold, some begin to be taken up with another sweetheart. The occupying and losing of this kind of sex, it is a question of making persons perplex in modern marriage life. Though some young people have accepted some modern cultural ideas, the influence of traditional culture and habit, but formed occupying the psychology of their common customs unconsciously. When in love, they still can respect the other side's will, even always follow one's advice, once get married, like preys in one's hands, the psychology changes soon. Especially on the relief, they often follow one's bent, ignore the physiology, psychology of the other side to experience, the sex emotion communication that the result will often be originally beautiful, will turn into a wishful dull act, this is a causing harmonious key that loses. If want to change and occupy the psychology, should know the following several principle: (1)Avoid the conflict. Will often conflict for some daily life trival matters between couple, leave the intersection of conflict and size alone at this moment, damage to some extent emotion always, too can produce, inhibit to the intersection of sex and psychology from while being a certain. In this case, should avoid the putting forward to the other side requirement at night, and should regulate the other side's mood, make the psychology of both sides make the equilibrium again, complement in order to caress again. (2)Not engaged in reluctantly. Even in a situation that couple have no conflict, because each one is different to external natural environment and adaptation degree of the interpersonal relationships physiologically or psychologically, also will require the difference on to the sexual life. At this moment, should pay attention to following the principle that is not engaged in reluctantly. Because even carry on the sexual life at this moment, will change it into a kind of dull dealing with. (3)Catch the good opportunity. Catch opportunities with very good harmonious interest of both sides of getting along of relation of both sides and carry on the sexual life. The soul of both sides beats in harmony at this moment, full of honeyed purpose of tenderness and can make sexual life and sex psychology get healthy development, make the happy flower of concordance life often bloom.

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