Three methods " test " The ones that test love are competent at the _'s love time of strength

Three methods " test " The ones that test love are competent at the _'s love time of strength

As to most people, that period of time that has just established in the emotion, we will sound out each other with various tricks. Perhaps we can open one's mouth and ask the other side to one's own view directly, to the plan of the relation between each other, but we will not usually do it in this way
,Even if do it in this way sometimes - -Just like in the interview, we still worry the authenticity of the other side's answer, we will be here " Probationary period " Tried one's very best, probed into it unexpectedly.
Let the intersection of we and experience trick between the lover, if you think following situation look familiar very much, in the life afterwards, will learn to distinguish soon, the odd behavior of the other side is the difficulty existing objectively on earth, the intimate lover's wiles. More important, we should learn to dismantle and employ - -See that it is just important to employ and dismantle employing
It is triangular test that come on stage ceremoniously at first
Will use this trick when the lover suspects or wants to sound out your loyalty. They observe your response to attractive person carefully, this may include time and position that you watch to the street beauty attentively; You spent the beauty's view in the company, you, to themselves and one woman contrast and appraisal between the men on the class. All of us know - -No matter who you are, your girlfriend will not probably be so pretty and American as Lin Jiaxin, your boyfriend will not be handsome like Leung Chiu Wai either, but the key problem lies in how you tackle these thorny problems - -Let, answer, neither violate the conscience ' If you take notice of) ,Not wounded and kind. Truth hurts one's feeling sometimes, the love really lets us think " you are most beautiful in my heart " too sometimes .
The second type test is the tolerance test
(As far as I know, this kind of test goes out of mirror rate very high in the lover at my side, before I understood these relevant theories, I know and utilize it) . Lover want, know the other side to oneself how be from abandon on earth. And the majority believe A friend in need is a friend indeed, to us, never speaking abandoning in the difficulties and dangers is a kind of honeyed words of different class, it can let us experience the other side this not grow love of the change even more. So a lot of people will afford to cudgel one's brain. If you can not mind whether the other side's parents are satisfied with oneself, cry bitterly when the other side proposed saying good-bye with resolution ' Most girls do not actually have this purpose while putting forward departure) ,Can't as to the other side " Stand " Everything one's own is tried hard to correct, or plagueing with unreasonable demands and making trouble wilfully to respond with tolerantly to he her, you can spend this to imprison by inches together safely.
Part test at one stroke finally
It if in loving issue deeply we,will what " whether no space and freedom stayed alone will be needed to everybody " Totally forget completely, we only expect to take care of each other with the other side together. There are words that can not be finished, there is feeling not finishing talking, there is thing that can not be finished. The time to stay together is shortened limitlessly, the time to separate seems too lengthy. At this moment, we can't help wanting to see it is mostly due to oneself that the other side finally has. If you have this right - -There emerged a light difference, either unction more badly battered must let, spend several long time that does not meet each other each othering busy, can find out whether the other side looks forward to getting back to our body warmly. There are a lot of clues, the telephone while separating, message frequency, the expression of the other side and fear of separating again when and then meet.
All these are being gone through by us, but we offer some ideas sometimes we dismantle and employ sometimes. A bit difficult to totally exist truly, they are bring and enlarge limitlessly with good intention by the remaining half, thus the one that test us " The love is competent at strength " . Perhaps you feel a little cruel, but what I saw is more love and fun. Change an angle and think deeply, if we have already begun to meet the trick, have proved at least the other side has already paid attention to us enough; If want to obtain complete trust, we have really needed to fight a hundred battles sometimes. In probationary period, it is the test that we have to go beyond, if in order to sign " lifetime contract " ,This is worthwhile too.


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