See through the man psychology : Other women of illusion in more than 39% of the loves

See through the man psychology : Other women of illusion in more than 39% of the loves
Whether the woman's secret is generally written into the diary, locked in the drawer, or fill in boudoir dense ears. And the man's secrets are mostly to hide in the heart, only hold oneself to chew slowly. Recently, U.S.A.>Unite>The magazine, has visited more than 2000 men together, find that compares women, the man is good at " L Keep secret " ,Especially in sex. And the secret which they often hide, it is only the following several kinds.
It is men that the sexual life is disharmonious " L Deceive " R Subject problem. The investigation reveals, 23% of the men were not once loyal to the present companion. While asking about the reason, 31% of the men explain and claim, all strange on the bed " L Too dull, boring" ,To have 24% person feel wife to a own one " The passion " . Indiana state Professor of university sociology department Scott of U.S.A.? Hao ZiMan says : " The woman thinks that likes putting in the heart. In man's view, use, take action, express hot, is vivid, tangible. "
45% of the husbands will have fantasies of other women in the sexual love. There are 55% people, see a feeling color content (read the color picture of the feeling or film) at least every week . " The man has a ' sex illusion ' list, will also upgrade automatically. " Scott? Hao ZiMan points out, though this sounds can't bear very much, totally normal. " Sex illusion can in the intersection of couple and life, insist on a longer time man, improve wife obtain probability of climax too thereupon. "
The color content of the feeling is one of the routes of man's obtaining illusion, make him not need practical action, can " L Experience " R Arrive and love crazily. The state university sociology professor Ian of Florida? The department receives and says, it is normal that men see a few feeling color contents in one week. But if the husband surfs the Net to look when being often in the dead of night, or cover up once seeing you, also or he no longer takes the initiative as before " L It is joyous to ask " ,The wife will notice soon, this may be husband's habit-forming behavior to color content of the feeling. In this question of communicating with the husband, pay attention to not injuring the other side's self-respect, can use the relaxed topic beginning, or tell him directly " L I think you, come on arms of me. "
In addition, 17% of the husbands will disguise the climax. " As erect when function fail, men might disguise the climax, avoid being disgraced in front of the wife. " Luo Li, registered therapist of California? Dr. Berkeley analyzes, the wife can chat with husband calmly. " Have a chat about the sex topic, had better go on outside bedroom. Because in man's view, bedroom like one the intersection of fight and field just, apt to cause it guard heart, influence the result of communicating . "
Finally, 41% of the husbands say frankly, have stolen a glance at the wife's E-mail addresses and mobile phones. On this, men and women nearly make a deuce. Because the investigation shows, 50% of the wives do it in this way. This often lacks the self-confident manifestation . Find companion steal a glance at, first don't make noise, think about the other side change in work or in life recently; Then tell him, should be candid among couple, wonders what is asked directly.
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